21 Things People Get Completely Wrong About Domestic Abuse

Because leaving isn't always as easy as it sounds.

Rorey OMalley
Created by Rorey OMalley
On Jul 17, 2015
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Domestic abuse is very common. One in four women in the U.S. will experience relationship violence in her lifetime.

(Source: http://1.usa.gov/Xi9pGA)

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However, women are not the only victims. One in seven men aged 18 and up encounter intimate partner violence.

(Source: http://1.usa.gov/Xi9pGA)

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Abuse isn't always physical. It can include manipulation, threats and aggressive verbal outbursts.

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It is possible for victims to still love and care for their abuser.

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That is because they often see a glimpse of the person they once fell in love with.

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Leaving abusive relationships is not always as simple as it seems.

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In fact, it's easy to say "why does this person stay?" but the situation is much more complex than that.

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There are many personal, economic and social factors that make it very difficult for victims to leave abusive relationships.

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Victims are at the highest risk when they are separating or divorcing their partners and are often intimidated and threatened when they try to leave.

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Abusers are often very codependent on their victims and their emotional instability can lead them to be violent.

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After an act of violence, abusers can become remorseful and needy, leaving the victim feeling sorry for them. This perpetuates the cycle of abuse.

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The cycle of abuse can span generations. Children exposed to traumatic acts of violence in their families are more susceptible to violence in future relationships.

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Often times, abusers were victims of domestic violence themselves.

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It is common for abusers blame their violence on drugs and alcohol instead of their own behavior.

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Domestic violence can happen to anyone regardless of income level, race, gender or sexual orientation.

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Victims are not weak, vulnerable, timid or helpless.

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Abuse can cause one's self esteem to plummet, leaving them feeling hopeless and alone.

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It can also make it hard to distinguish between healthy, respectful loving acts and abusive ones.

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Although it isn't easy, once victims are given help and recover from abuse, they are able to find hope and maintain healthy, loving relationships in the future.

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By telling their stories, victims of abuse are often able to recover and inspire others to seek help.


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If you are experiencing abuse in your relationship or know a friend, family member or someone else who is, call The National Domestic Abuse Hotline at 1-800-799-SAFE or visit http://www.thehotline.org

Advocates are available 24/7 in over 170 languages and all calls and chats are completely confidential.

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