What Type of Mother-In-Law Do You Have?

You’re dealing with a MIL who looks for a reason to make you afraid of her so that she can keep you in her pocket. Her sole job is to intimidate you into obeying her so that she can have you under her control, especially since she feels she’s lost control over her own child the moment she/he left her home for you and with you. Her child moving on with you (and possibly creating a better family environment) is the worst thing that could have happened to her. Not because you’re a bad person or anything and as a matter of fact, she may not necessarily have anything against you as a person, but the only thing in her life that substantiated her as a person who’s doing something worthwhile and productive with her own time, was the rule she had over her child.

When she was no longer able to control her child like she wanted to, it left her no choice but to focus on other things in her life that have been spinning out of whack for years and still is. Without that control, she can no longer avoid facing the truth of her own matters….That is UNTIL it comes time to lord over you with threats and intimidation. Every opportunity for her, in your presence, is to gain control again so that she can go back to overlooking what really needs to be dealt with in her own life. She’s also not the type of person to only talk behind your back nor will she tell just any ole body her business or your business. Whatever she says to a person she confides in about you will be said and done directly to your face at one time or another.

She will only be comfortable around you by making you bow down to her. Even if you bowed willingly before she ever spoke a word, she would threaten you to stand back up and you better not bow down to her unless she tells you too! If you have this kind of mother-in-law, find out just how to deal with her with this free guide titled, “How to deal with Mother Gemma” by clicking this link: http://www.nzingajackson.com/freeguidesforfamilyfunction/

You’re dealing with a MIL who looks for a reason to make you afraid of her so that she can keep you in her pocket. Her sole job is to intimidate you into obeying her so that she can have you under her control, especially since she feels she’s lost control over her own child the moment she/he left her home for you and with you. Her child moving on with you (and possibly creating a better family environment) is the worst thing that could have happened to her. Not because you’re a bad person or anything and as a matter of fact, she may not necessarily have anything against you as a person, but the only thing in her life that substantiated her as a person who’s doing something worthwhile and productive with her own time, was the rule she had over her child.

When she was no longer able to control her child like she wanted to, it left her no choice but to focus on other things in her life that have been spinning out of whack for years and still is. Without that control, she can no longer avoid facing the truth of her own matters….That is UNTIL it comes time to lord over you with threats and intimidation. Every opportunity for her, in your presence, is to gain control again so that she can go back to overlooking what really needs to be dealt with in her own life. She’s also not the type of person to only talk behind your back nor will she tell just any ole body her business or your business. Whatever she says to a person she confides in about you will be said and done directly to your face at one time or another.

She will only be comfortable around you by making you bow down to her. Even if you bowed willingly before she ever spoke a word, she would threaten you to stand back up and you better not bow down to her unless she tells you too! If you have this kind of mother-in-law, find out just how to deal with her with this free guide titled, “How to deal with Mother Gemma” by clicking this link:
http://www.nzingajackson.com/freeguidesforfamilyfunction/

This woman is the queen of making others feel small. Everything has to be done and seen her way and when it’s not, she opts for her handy dandy crafty tools of humiliation or portraying herself as a victim to gain the total attention and empathy from her child in order to make you look “less than” when you’re around her.

She wants you AND your companion to acknowledge her as Queen in your life. Notice I didn’t say the word “lives”! I said life and the reason is that two people hailing her as Queen is better than one and if you’re joining in with her child then, in her mind, you will live a life dedicated to her approval, disapproval, and command. She thinks every woman should model after her and when she does, she makes sure to let them know that they not only missed the mark of coming close but she also makes sure to tell that they will never match her standards either. She has trained her children to see her as Queen Mother and not just “mom” and this training is the whip she uses to keep them in line.

This woman loves to be the hero, villain, and victim all at the same time and is an expert at playing all the roles, any given time, all at once. She feels better when she is admired but that’s not enough, she needs to be admired while you are belittled so that your companion will never see you for the gem you really are. If they do see the gem you are, she’s sure to throw some mud on you to prevent her child’s allegiance from switching over to you. If you have this kind of mother-in-law, find out just how to deal with her in this free guide titled, “How to deal with Mother Marie” by clicking this link:
http://www.nzingajackson.com/freeguidesforfamilyfunction/

This woman throws the rock and hides in order to bring her child to resolve that the relationship he/she has with you isn’t working out AND yet, she loves to show her face in the bushes to let you know she’s the culprit. She is divisive and conniving but most of all, she’s strategic. She never does anything, to reinforce the thoughts of you being the wrong one on her child, without planning it in full first.

Every visit, every phone call, every text, every outing, every gift, and every special occasion is planned ahead of time to totally make you seem inadequate, unfit, and unqualified to be called “the one” and she goes out of her way to do so. She loves to keep you on her turf so that she can manage her plan better so expect to get an invite here and there to accompany her child in her presence. As a matter of fact, when she’s pulling all stops to humiliate you and make your companion think twice, she’ll insist you come!

This is the type of woman that looks down on you because you’re not “cut from the same cloth” and while that may be something your companion loves about you and probably needs in his/her life, she is going to use that as the reason why she hates you. This type of MIL will even come across prejudice or discriminatory, even within the same race. All she wants to do is show to the entire family and friends circle that you’re not a good fit and therefore, always does something extraordinary to prove that you have no business being with her child. She will smile in the face of her child and everyone watching and then intentionally show her fangs to you when nobody is looking. She means to do your character much harm and she’s not afraid to let you know it from the beginning. If you have this kind of mother-in-law, find out just how to deal with her in this free guide titled, “How to deal with Mother Viola” by clicking this link:
http://www.nzingajackson.com/freeguidesforfamilyfunction/