10 Dating Tips For Introverted People

Is it hard for you to navigate the dating scene? Well guess what, dating has been rigged for extroverted people! If you're introverted, there's a different set of rules you must follow to score that date!

Lea Abelson
Created by Lea Abelson
On Feb 25, 2019
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1. No Drastic Changes - wear what you feel comfortable in, something you won't feel self-conscious about. And don't get a new haircut or new shoes that aren't you.

2. Choose a dating event that's short - like a short coffee date or brisk walk. This gives you a swift exit if you need it.

3. Choose a place you already know - if you're familiar with your date spot, you won't feel as nervous.

4. Choose an activity you enjoy - this will also calm nerves and will make you more comfortable to talk about the activity, therefore showing the real you.

5. Practice a bit - Having a friend practicing a mock date with you will get you in the zone and prepare you for questions that might come up.

6. Don't hide your introversion - Sooner or later your date will know you are introverted. Pretending to be outgoing is fun for a while but we all know it can drain us. Be real, be you.

7. Use open ended questions - Asking questions that require longer answers are always a good idea for a date. They also will make your date talk more, giving you more time to think of more questions!

8. Set up an excuse, just in case - Your date could be a total dud, and if that happens, it's useful to have an excuse ready. Maybe your friend just texted and they need your help with something, or maybe you forgot about a work deadline.

9. Don't ruminate - After a date, for introverts, it's easy to overthink everything you said or did. Focus on the positive and try not to overthink things too much and move on to the next date!

10. Don't feel like you have to do all the talking - Sometimes introverts will get nervous and think if they don't say something, the moment will be awkward. Try to slow down and listen to what your date is saying instead and respond after.

I hope you realize now that dating can absolutely be enjoyable for introverts!

I hope you realize now that dating can absolutely be enjoyable for introverts!

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