Are You In Love With A Narcissist?
Are You In Love With A Narcissist?
You might not even know what narcissism is. But that's fine, that's why I made this. And also because, lately it seems that narcissistic behavior is getting normalized. People who are possessive are seen as passionate etc... Take Christian Grey, for example. How many girls doesn't love his behavior? It's scary.
I've done a LOT of research for this quiz. However, the result may be bullshit so please take it with a grain of salt!
You might not even know what narcissism is. But that's fine, that's why I made this. And also because, lately it seems that narcissistic behavior is getting normalized. People who are possessive are seen as passionate etc... Take Christian Grey, for example. How many girls doesn't love his behavior? It's scary.
I've done a LOT of research for this quiz. However, the result may be bullshit so please take it with a grain of salt!
How often do you feel stalked by your love?
When your partner does something wrong, how often does she / he blame it on something or someone else?
In the beginning, did it feel like your partner was love bombing you & treating you like a king / queen, but then started to control & denigrate you? And now you kinda feel like the wilted rose in the pic above..?
How often does your partner find it difficult to trust people?
Your partner has a grandiose self-image & often exaggerate their own existence & competence. The fact that she/he could actually be wrong never crosses her/his mind. And admitting failure & apologizing is not something your love really does.
Just like psychopaths, narcissists haven't got the best empathy. Basically just because their own needs are in the focus. They can pretend that they care about others, but just as long as they feel like it will benefit them. A narcissist knows that caring for others is seen as "good" & may be very nice to people in front of someone they want to impress or someone they want to gain trust from. Because, unlike psychopaths, narcissist do understand feelings & may very well pretend that they have them. When really they couldn't care less.
There's most likely nothing narcissistic about your love! Congrats :D
There's most likely nothing narcissistic about your love! Congrats :D
Congratulations! Your one & only doesn't seem to be mentally ill, be very grateful for that! :-)
Your love might have some narcissistic personality traits
Your love might have some narcissistic personality traits
It might be so that your love is a narcissist. It's definitely nothing you can be sure of by only taking this quiz, obviously. But I think you should be careful & maybe take contact with someone, a psychologist, perhaps? Or just talk to your friends or parents? Or read about it online! Educate yourself! Narcissism can be very very dangerous & the person who has is will NOT admit it in the first place, since Narcissist have a very "special" view of themselves, and with that I mean they don't see their flaws. They're irresistible & perfect according to them.
You may be in love with a narcissist
You may be in love with a narcissist
Uuhhuh..,,Seems like you are in great danger (at least if this quiz is anything to trust). No but seriously, if you answered honestly and it showed this result, please please do you research and run away from your boyfriend/girlfriend as soon as you can and never ever look back. The more time you spend with narcissists, the harder it is to get away.
I think you should be careful & maybe take contact with someone, a psychologist, perhaps? Or just talk to your friends or parents? Or read about it online! Educate yourself! Narcissism can be very very dangerous & the person who has it will NOT admit it in the first place, since narcissists have a very "special" view of themselves. And by special, I mean they don't see their flaws. At all. They're irresistible & perfect according to them.
For fun, very good examples of fictional narcissists is:
Gaston from "Belle"
Mr Burns from "The Simpsons"
Christian Grey from "Fifty Shades Of Grey"
Lord Voldemort from "Harry Potter"
Lionel Luthor from "Smallville"
Ursula from "Ariel"
Jafar from "Aladdin"
And pretty much every Disney villain xD
And also, please remember that sometimes, giving someone who has really screwed you over a second chance, is like giving them a second bullet to put in their gun because they missed you the first time.