Is Your Current Relationship Emotionally Abusive?

Take this quiz to find out if you are currently in an emotionally abusive relationship

John Martinez
Created By John Martinez
On Nov 20, 2018

Have you ever been cornered in a room and not allowed to leave it by your partner until they were satisfied with the outcome of the conflict?

Have you ever been touched sexually at night while sleeping by your partner without your expressed permission?

Does your partner make fun of you or put you down in front of others?

Do you feel you must “get permission” before going somewhere or before making even small decisions?

Does your partner control your spending?

Is your partner unable to laugh at themselves?

Does your partner disrespect your requests and do only what they think is best for you?

Does your partner blame you or others for their unhappiness or problems?

Does your partner call you names?

Does your partner make excuses for their behavior or tend to blame others or circumstances for their mistakes and shortcomings?

Does your partner continually violate and/or disrespect your valid requests?

Does your partner pout, withdraw or purposely withhold attention or affection from you when they don't get their way?

Does your partner refuse to meet your basic needs or use neglect or abandonment as punishment?

Does it seem as if your partner does not notice or care how you feel?

Do you feel that your partner really listens to you when you talk?

Does your partner require continual contact lacking a healthy support network among their own peers?

Do you ever feel that your partner treats you as an extension of themselves rather than as an individual?

Does your partner isolate you from family or friends?

Does your partner ever threaten to out you to your family or family members?

Have you ever been forced to do something against your will in order to appease your partner?

Does your partner disrespect your personal boundaries by sharing information that you have not approved for sharing?

Does your partner accuse you of something contrived in their own mind when you know it is not true?

Is your partner unusually possessive of you or jealous of others who spend time with you?

Has your partner ever made false allegations about you to your friends, family members, children, employer, or the police, in order to manipulate and isolate you?

Has your partner ever threatened to prevent you from seeing your kids if you try to leave?

Congratulations! You are currently NOT in an emotionally abusive relationship

Congratulations! You are currently NOT in an emotionally abusive relationship

Good Job! You have selected a partner that treats you fairly and appropriately in your relationship. However if you still feel as if you are being emotionally abused, please do some more research on the topic. Sometimes quizzes and surveys do not do an adequate job in revealing the signs of an abusive relationship. Please check out our site for more information and resources on the topic. Likewise, continue to seek health in all of your relationships.
http://www.emotionalabuseinfo.org

It appears that you are in an emotionally abusive relationship.

It appears that you are in an emotionally abusive relationship.

You answered enough questions pointing to emotional abuse with an affirmative response. This could mean that you are currently in an abusive relationship. Don't panic! The first thing you should do is seek out professional individual counseling. This can sometimes reveal a lot about your particular situation, and eventually lead to freedom from abuse. For more information about emotional abuse, resources and tips please come by our web site and look around. We are a not-for-profit group of people who just want to help.
http://www.emotionalabuseinfo.org