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A good relationship is one of the most important things in our life. A good and healthy married relationship helps one person to grow and gives good direction to a person’s life. A fulfilling and supportive relationship are not that easily made, one has to give their 100% dedication, loyalty, good social skills and spend healthy time with your partner.
 
When a person takes good care, understand and support their sprouse, it becomes 10 times easy to have a healthy and honest relationship. But times come when people are unable to cope up with their married life due to several reasons, they face difficulties in making a conversation, the value decrease which lead breaking of relationship. Such situations can put both men and women into a depressing, upsetting and demotivated phase of life.
 
Every couple face issues in their life, and relationship. Some couples pass through these circumstances and cope with the changes in their relationship, but there are many couples who are unable to do this, for those couples, advice and counselling from good psychologists can be a very good way to be back with their spouses.
 
Premarital counseling
Before tying the knot, beware of all the habits that other person have, talk about each thing you expect in that marriage, discuss how you want to spend money, raise kids, religion. You don't have to be totally same of each aspect, but you need to have a common ground to avoid conflicts in the future!
 
When you will know each other and will tie a knot with respecting each other choice, preferences and accepting that other person has flaws will make you more open in your relationship. Premarital counseling will help the couple to be more acceptable and open towards relationship and scope of its success increase when all your cards are kept clear.
 
Getting married is not just about marrying the right person, it’s more about doing the right things and keeping the right attitude with the person you are getting married to. Relationships are constantly work in progress.
 
Save your marriage by following these steps-
 

1. Unless your partner has completely given up on the marriage there is still scope for change and a little change in your attitude will help your partner to get the right signals in order to save your marriage.
2. Take a look at your own behavior and do things which will help you to change it, realize what bad you have been doing lately which is upsetting your partner and work for it.
3. Take some time and look out for a perfect day, with a good relationship. What you expected that day to be and implement the same in real life with your partner.
4. Don’t give too much, as per Marital Counseling sessions, you need to learn to give yourself good “I time” because if you can’t love yourself you will not be able to love anyone. Priorities yourself, spend some time in things that you like. It’s not selfish it is a necessity. Everyone needs space, giving and taking some space will help you and your partner too cool down and understand each other point and you will start giving each other even more respect.
5. Give up the grudge, it’s time to let go of your bad memories and to do this you need to be committed, this may sound easy but it is one of the most difficult things couples face when it comes to resolving their issues.

 
Marital Counseling will help you feel relieved and lighter and chances of a healthy marriage will increase, which will help you to open up for positivity and trust.