which -dere are you.

you're the epitome of "tough love". your exterior deposition is hard and most of the time, if not all, hostile. you care dearly about your friends but you're incapable of showing that without creating havoc. your heart flutters when it comes to the person you hold dear and often, you treat them horrendously because you are not sure how to cope with your own insecurity. it takes a strong willed and patient person to crack you out of your shell.

there are so many harmful tropes that describe you [for example, the psycho ex], but that isn't you. you are sweet and warm externally, but internally you are malicious and hurt. you let your jealousy dictate your actions and you really don't have purposeful intent. you need a break sometimes from pursuing love interests until you can self reflect on your toxic behavior, but the best part about this is that you are loyal. you need someone faithful to you that you can trust with your heart and soul. you main error is encumbered trust which leads to blatant violence or emotional manipulation.

you're a ruler in your own world and you expect to be treated as such. sometimes you're kind and just and other times, you are haughty and vain. this isn't a bad thing! it's just your personality. you have a superiority complex and you tend to require more than the necessities from those you are infatuated with. you're the kind of elaborate romantic who would go beyond the beyond to impress your lover. cakes? gold? jewelry? a fucking tiger on a gold leash? your whole soul? you'd give them the world, but you also expect them to treat you like the jewel you are.

you are proud and find all life that most would consider equal to be below your own. you are pragmatic in the sense of finding most emotions irrational. you generally cannot empathize or sympathize with others and if you do, it is with people you care deeply for. there are multiple types of a kamidere, and the most common is what people would mistaken for a tsundere with a "god complex". you are the ruler of your own world and you pick and prune your interests just to keep the game in your favor.

you're the opposite of a tsundere. you are cold, distant, and standoffish. you genuinely do not care for strife of a interpersonal drama and you avoid conflict. you're not really sure and/or you are awkward when it comes to giving someone comforts to their delima that isn't entirely forced. you're very blunt and stray from lies and half-truths. you enjoy calm and collectfulness and avoid disruptive people. you will protect those who matter and your loved ones no matter what the price is.

not to be confused with kuudere, a dandere is shy and asocial because of anxiety. they are generally a collection of pushovers and they aren't quick to tell their love interest that they like them. they may stumble over themselves and they are very gentle, however, they are the first to turn on you when you push them the wrong way. some may retaliate violently or somehow manipulate others into extracting revenge. they aren't easily offended, however. they are good friends and gentle spirits and would be wonderful to have an experience with.