Test: What is your language of love?
Test: What is your language of love?
Now I understand what I’ve been doing wrong.
Now I understand what I’ve been doing wrong.
What made you feel joy at the start of your relationship?
When you want to do something nice for your partner, what do you do?
You would be offended if your partner...
For you, the ideal partner is someone who...
Which childhood memories bring you the greatest joy?
Which of the following quotes expresses your attitude towards love?
What is your ideal present?
You're happiest when your partner...
To make a connection with someone, you need to...
Language of Love #3: Acts of service
Language of Love #3: Acts of service
You consider action to be the most logical way to express love and concern for someone. You like cooking for your partner and picking him up from work. You're counting on being the recipient of the same sort of actions, and any lack of it can seriously upset you.
The chances are most people consider you a person of action rather than words.
If acts of service are your partner's language of love:
If your partner is a man, the chances are he works late a lot and is always fixing something at home rather than sitting doing nothing next to you. Don't be angry - this is his way of expressing his love for you.
Language of Love #2: Gifts
Language of Love #2: Gifts
You attach importance to being given presents and treated to surprises by your partner. This doesn't mean that you're materialistic, just that you consider a present to be the material embodiment of love. The price or value isn't important.
You know the price of money, but you're still generous and attentive.
If this sounds like your partner:
Remember all important dates, and take note of their tastes. This will help you find the most meaningful presents. Never give something without enthusiasm or just to get rid of it. Your presents should alway remind your partner of you and the love that you share.
Language of Love #1: Physical touch
Language of Love #1: Physical touch
You need physical contact with your loved one more than anything. Through physical touch, you can express a multitude of different feelings. You attach special importance to being kissed and to closeness, and you begin to have doubts if you don't receive these things.
You know how to make someone happy through tender physical contact.
If this is your partner's language of love:
Hold their hand more often, touch them fleetingly as often as possible, and never avoid closeness.
Language of Love #4: Quality time
Language of Love #4: Quality time
Time is the most precious resource. When we devote it to someone else, we're giving that person a little part of our lives. For you, it's important to have common memories with your partner, whether it be a holiday or some mutual endeavor.
This makes you attentive and romantic. The chances are you really know how to listen. Time spent with you is always interesting.
If quality time is your partner's language of love:
Learn to really listen to them, share their interests, and spend time together. Memories of things done together are very important to them.
Language of Love #5: Words of affirmation
Language of Love #5: Words of affirmation
Sincere words of support and praise are what a lot of people don't get enough of. You have a strong need for your partner to not just appreciate you but to be able to put this appreciation into words.
If this is your language of love, then you're skilled at using words to make people feel good about themselves.
If words of affirmation are your partner's language of love:
Talk to him about your feelings. If you're not very good at expressing yourself elegantly, use words and phrases from books/movies. Your partner feels love through their ears, and he'll feel over the moon when he hears tender and inspirational expressions of feeling from you.