The Body Language Slips That Successful People Never Make
The Body Language Slips That Successful People Never Make
Body language plays a crucial role in our daily lives, whether we know it or not. From casual interactions with strangers to more formal exchanges with colleagues; we can reveal to people what we’re all about (or not about) with just a few simple gestures. For confident and successful people, positive body language tends to be part of their make-up but for others, a bit of gentle reminding may be required.
Body language plays a crucial role in our daily lives, whether we know it or not. From casual interactions with strangers to more formal exchanges with colleagues; we can reveal to people what we’re all about (or not about) with just a few simple gestures. For confident and successful people, positive body language tends to be part of their make-up but for others, a bit of gentle reminding may be required.
Weak Handshake
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Although a handshake only lasts a couple of seconds, a bad one can leave an enduring impression on someone. A study done by the University of Iowa in 2008 found that those people who start job interviews with a firm, strong handshake are always perceived in a more favorable light than those who have a limp handshake.
Slouching
Slouching or bad posture signals that you lack confidence and have low energy levels. If your back is curved and your shoulders are pointing inwards, it makes sense that you will appear physically smaller. On the other hand, good posture i.e. a straight back and perked-up shoulders, maximizes the amount of space you fill and so denotes control and assertion.
Exaggerated Gestures
Overzealous or exaggerated gestures can suggest that you are chaotic or that you’re stretching the truth. If you tend to communicate with your hands, try to use small, controlled gestures to show leadership and confidence. Also, ensure you use open gestures, for example, showing the palms of your hands – this helps to communicate that you have nothing to hide.
Fidgeting
Fidgeting can include playing with your hair, biting your lip or tapping your fingers on a table. It usually signals that you’re anxious or dis-interested and is best avoided if you wish to demonstrate enthusiasm and confidence. In a survey of 400 hiring managers conducted by CareerBuilder.ca, 38% identified fidgeting as the biggest body language faux pas made by job seekers.
Invading Personal Space
Standing too close to someone (nearer than one and a half feet) suggests that you have no understanding of personal space. An invasion of personal space can make people feel uncomfortable. Approximately 3 to 8 feet is an appropriate distance in which to converse with work colleagues, casual acquaintances and strangers.