10 Random Things Guys Think About While On A Date

When you're on a date, it's hard to know what each other is really thinking! Well let's see really going through guys' minds when they pull out a chair or put their hand on the bill during a date.

Stephanie Lee
Created by Stephanie Lee
On May 1, 2019
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1

Should I pay? Or should I let her pay?

It's the age old question, but you'd be surprised how much strife it causes guys. Because of our current feminism driven society, some guys will opt to share the bill, and some will even suggest the girl pay to seem "progressive." Other guys will pay for the bill just to play it safe. It's a challenging conundrum for both sides and is usually on the guy's shoulders to decide.

2

Am I attracted to her?

Unfortunately because of biological differences, compared to women, most guys will think about sex before anything else. I'm not saying all guys think like this, some care most about intelligence, personality etc. But as statistics go, most guys will wonder what you'll be like to have sex with before discussing personal interests.

3

Does she know I'm nervous?

Men know that women see confidence as sexy, so that's exactly what they try to emulate on a date. You can bet that they are hoping you don't see through their facade and actually believe their confidence.

4

Should I ask her where she wants to go?

Guys do this thing where they worry about whether the place they chose will be fun and relaxing enough for you (their date). Many guys will opt to just ask you straight up where you want to go but sometimes that doesn't go over well either because that means he's not taking the lead.

5

I hope she doesn't notice me staring at her.

Guys are very visual when it comes to attraction so when they first meet you, you might find him staring almost creepily at you. He's just gaging all the details about you to see if he likes what he sees. But at the same time they can't help staring and hope you don't think it's weird and creepy, but most of the time it is.

6

Don't say something stupid.

Guys can get incredibly nervous on dates, all the pressure is on them to impress, so with this pressure often comes word vomit. You might find your date just spewing words at you, maybe not making much sense. Some guys can be very self conscious on dates and they know that if they say one wrong thing, it could be over.

7

Will my family and friends like her?

This is a bit of a future oriented thought. But for guys who hang out a lot with their family and friends will most definitely wonder if you will fit into the dynamic. Some guys think even more long term than most women do.

8

Do we have anything in common?

Of course as the date progresses, guys will being to wonder, are we really compatible? He may totally dig your collection of retro boardgames or he might think....eh maybe not.

9

How often is she looking at the cellphone?

A guys knows if you need to check your cellphone or if you're checking it because you're bored. This tends to be a pretty big annoyance for guys because to them, the stakes are high and more often than not their nerves are going through the roof. So when you pull out your cell phone and start crushing candy, you can bet they are less than amused.

10

Am I getting any tonight?

Guys have this strange algorithm in their heads that can convince themselves whether or not they might be having sex tonight. If things are going well and they think they are, they might make a move. If things seem to be going downhill they might just kiss and say goodnight.

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