Q&A with Kay-Leigh
Q&A with Kay-Leigh
Contestant on Married at First Sight SA spills the beans
Contestant on Married at First Sight SA spills the beans
DStv
When did you decide to apply for Married at First Sight and how did you get to making that decision?
Kay-Leigh
I was fascinated by the concept after watching the US and Australia versions. I joked with my mom saying that I'd enter if there was a local one and she actually sent me the application form a week or two later. I didn't complete it until sometime after receiving it and the rest is history!
DStv
What was going through your head when they told you that they had found your match?
Kay-Leigh
My mouth went dry and I thought they were joking at first. But then I got really excited that my potential match had been found.
DStv
How did you feel when you first saw him? What went through your mind?
Kay-Leigh
Walking down the aisle was nerve-wracking and when I saw Wesley I thought ‘Holy crap! That's him’ and then ‘don't faint’.
DStv
What’s it like to skip to marriage?
Kay-Leigh
I think you take the dating period for granted. I know singletons always say that dating is exhausting but it gives you the opportunity to ease into things. You get to dip your toe into the water whereas marriage is one big bomb drop!
DStv
What would you have done differently, if anything?
Kay-Leigh
I don't think I would have done anything differently. Of course you think of situations that could have been dealt with a particular way after the fact, but that's part of any relationship and if you can learn and grow from it than it has served its purpose.
DStv
What advice would you give your pre-married self?
Kay-Leigh
Don't wear such and a tight bodice - being able to breathe when you meet your husband is important!
DStv
What do you think is vital for marriage to work?
Kay-Leigh
Communication and trust - if you have these, all the other requirements for a successful marriage will fall into place.
DStv
What has been the strangest experience in this process so far?
Kay-Leigh
Wesley had to help me out of my wedding dress after knowing me for only a few hours. I was just trying not to flash him in the process!
DStv
What have you learnt from you experience?
Kay-Leigh
I've learnt a tremendous amount about myself throughout the process and it has solidified the fact that I have incredible people in my life.
DStv
What’s your personal definition of love?
Kay-Leigh
What love means to me… it's about taking a risk on someone because your heart says so. It's constantly deciding to chose one person no matter what. When the butterflies fade and the sparkle dims, you're still exactly where you want to be with the person you'd risk it all for.